This is a question that pretty much everybody has asked at least once in their life.
Well to answer that question, we must have an understanding of the pleasure spots. We’ll use the female anatomy to answer the common question.
Women have 2 main pleasure spots. One is inside the vagina, one is outside the vagina. The inner side is commonly called the G-Spot, while the outside is called the Clitoris.
Both of these pleasure spots can achieve different intensities of orgasms. Everybody has their own preferences for which orgasm they prefer. Some prefer having both orgasms at the same time.
As for the male anatomy, they also have a G-Spot but we’ll talk about that in a different blog.
What is a Dildo?
Well I’m sure by now you have seen or heard of a dildo before. Matter of fact, I think you and your friends have had a laugh about dildos. The Dildo is known as the most common sex toy because of it’s history and obvious design. But the truth is that it’s actually the second most common sex toy in todays day and age.
The dildo is usually designed to look like a fake penis. Nowadays, the dildo can be found in many different shapes and sizes. From looking like a penis, to looking like an octopus tentacle. The designs are endless!
Dildos provide pleasure by going into the body to hit all the good spots. It’s most commonly used inside the vagina but can also be used in the anus. The pleasure comes from contact in a sliding motion on the sensitive nerves inside the body, also known as the G-Spot.
The common materials used to make dildos are silicon and glass. Silicon design creates the ‘real feel’ of a penis. Glass dildos are usually used by experienced users. Some prefer glass because it’s very easy to clean and sometimes can be easier to slide. The glass dildos are also much harder, some people call this the ‘Diamond Dick’.
What is a Vibrator?
Believe it or not, Vibrators are newer to market but also more popular than the Dildo. Vibrators come in many different sizes and designs. If you’re new to sex toys, you’ll be surprised of how many designs there actually are.
But the bottom line of a vibrator is it’s vibration effects to be used mainly as a clitoris stimulator. Think of this as the ‘outside’ G-Spot.
Generally speaking, it doesn’t matter the size of the vibrator. What’s more important is the power and force of the vibration. Although there are still other factors to keep in mind.
What kind of Vibrator is good for you? Well, the bullet style is the most common because it’s very discreet and small.
You should also keep in mind if the vibrator uses a battery or has a built-in rechargeable battery. You can also decide whether you want a vibrator with a hand grip.
Then you can decide whether you want a vibrator that will give you small vibrations for your everyday orgasm or a vibration so strong that your neighbors will be checking the news for earthquakes!
Oh yeah, there’s also the 2-in-1 Vibrator/Dildo combos
If having just a dildo or a vibrator isn’t enough, there’s also the 2-in-1’s. This combines both the dildo and vibrator on one device. Trust me on this, if you have a hard time getting an orgasm, this will make you question everything you know about orgasms. It’s… intense. And I love it.
So which one is the better choice?
Well if you have to choose only one, you’ll need to have some questions answered.
Let me try to persuade you into either a vibrator or a dildo.
If you care about having discreet pleasure, quick orgasms, everyday use. I’d recommend the vibrator.
If you like long penetrating pleasure, full body orgasms and don’t mind a bit of mess. I’d recommend the dildo.
Whichever option you choose, I believe you’ll be satisfied.
Here’s a big tip: Try and try again to be familiar with the toy. Sometimes it takes a few times to get used to until you can enjoy the full potential of any sex toy.
With that being said, I hope you enjoy the pleasures of sex toys. And if you are new to the world of sex toys, you’re in for a long and fun trip!