If you are a beginner and have no idea how and where to begin. Using a vibrator is not so difficult, it just takes some compliance and practice. Here we will discuss all the helpful hints to guide.
Know Your Sex Toy First
Sex toys including vibrators have become a popular way to enjoy your sex life. Vibrators are one of the most popular toys on the market, women use these sex toys for getting orgasms and more pleasure.
There are hundreds of different options of vibrators available in the market with different styles, sizes, and features. Let’s start by finding out how a vibrator works.
Vibrators are hand-held devices that can vibrate at different speeds at the touch of a button. Some vibrators are operated by a battery, while others need to be plugged in. When it is applied to the area around or inside the vagina, it increases blood flow, sensation, and arousal. Vibrators can also lead to quicker or more intense orgasms.
When you are shopping for a vibrator, you should consider some features like:
- The texture and the material of the vibrator should be pleasant to the touch
- The speed or intensity of the vibrations can be adjusted or not
- Is the vibrator comfortable for you to hold in your hand for extended periods?
- Does the vibrator emit any sound or light when in use?
- Is it waterproof or not?
- Are there different vibration sequences?
If you are a beginner, you should choose those which has multiple vibration settings so you can try out what feels best for you. You can also read product reviews online or ask sales associates about different brands or features.
How To Wash Your Vibrator?
To keep your vibrator clean, wash it properly after every use and make sure it’s free from dirt, bacteria, or packaging chemicals.
Each vibrator comes with the manufacturer’s washing instructions. As per the electrical components, you might need to clean your vibrator using a disinfecting wipe instead of soap and water.
Ready to Experiment
Whenever you are ready to experiment with your vibrator, you should be in the mood for sexual stimulation, it helps in calming your nerves. Here are some tips that will help you to get in the mood:
- Take a warm shower or bath
- Massage your body with oil or lotion
- Dimming the lights or lighting candles
- Play some erotic music
- Lovingly touch the sensitive areas of your body to stimulate yourself
- Masturbate without finding an orgasm
As your sexual desires increase, you’ll feel more comfortable with your sex toy.
Avoid Penetration without Lube
Never forget to apply some lube to the sex toy and your genitals to reduce friction. It makes the penetration easy and smooth. If your sex toy including a vibrator is made up of silicone, don’t use silicone lube.
Initiate with the Slowest and Lowest Speed and Pressure
If your vibrator has different speed settings, try starting on the slowest one. You can change the speed or pressure of your vibrator to influence sensitivity. Each type of vibrator requires experimentation. So, for the safety measures, you should ensure that the pressure and speed should be increased rapidly.
Look in a Mirror While Using Vibrator
Using a vibrator while looking at yourself in a mirror can be an erotic experience, it helps you get aroused more, and you understand what your body is experiencing.
Try Using a Vibrator All Over Your body
Vibrators are not only for the genitals part, you can use them across other parts like your neck, butt, feet, or nipple, for getting more arousal. Go slowly to experience different kinds of sensations, pausing in areas that feel good.
Use a vibrator for Couple Sex
According to many studies, it is shown that the couples who use vibrators for sexual pleasure, get more satisfaction compared to those who don’t.
For maximum pleasure hold the vibrator over your clitoris while your partner goes down on you while you’re having penetrative sex. Both of you can also use the vibrator for foreplay and use your hands for stimulation. Play with getting the zenith of orgasm with a vibrator before slowing down on the heightened stimulation.
How to Make Your Vibrator Long-Lasting?
It doesn’t matter, what kind of sex toy you have, you’ll want to make sure to take good care of it to make them long-lasting.
Store the vibrator in a case, or keep it in a drawer or box with your other sex toys when it’s not in use. when you are using your vibrator, you should apply as much pressure as necessary. Don’t apply the force in the wrong direction, it could break the device. If it’s battery-operated, remove the batteries after each use to help prolong battery life. If it uses an electrical outlet, don’t forget to unplug it after you’ve finished using it or it’s finished charging.
Safety Tips
If you are a beginner, it is very important to know some safety measures. With time, you will learn the technique of how to use and store it. Follow these safety tips to make sure your vibrator doesn’t cause any unwanted side effects.
- Keep your sex toy clean, and follow the manufacturer’s instructions to wash it. It prevents germs, bacteria, and other harmful environmental stressors away. If you use it for couple sex, it prevents sexually transmitted infections.
- If you use it for couple sex, use a new condom on the vibrator each time
- Check properly to make sure there aren’t any damage or cracks in the vibrator, it can increase the risk of injury or infection
- Avoid a damaged vibrator
- If you experience pain or discomfort, stop using it.
So, these are some basics that help you in using your vibrator properly. You can follow these guidelines, and add more fun and pleasure.